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The_sun_and_i

That's so funny! I just started watching Lady Gaga videos in earnest for the first time yesterday, and have been thinking about the interesting issues of gender, sexuality, and artistic interpretation she and her videos bring up. That moment in Bad Romance where she falls on her hands and knees and the camera pans back to show the guy watching... simultaneously titillating for me as a subbie and thought-provoking for me as a student of sexuality and gender representations. I'm starting to come around to the view that she fundamentally embraces sexuality, in a queer and subversive way, though there's a certain extent to which her gender exaggerations and some of the more uncomfortably sexual/eroticized-inequality moments (uncomfortable: I watched Telephone in one of my classes and had to really work not to squirm in my seat) strike me as deliberately discomfiting satire of the patriarchal treatment of women as fundamentally sex objects and bodies to be viewed and used by males. But anyway, yay Gaga!

The_sun_and_i

Oh, also I'm Amanda/Angel Kaida. I've commented here and emailed you before. I just signed in on Twitter now because the thing told me to. Sorry about that.

jemand

FUCK! It just ate one of my comments!

Anyway... I will say I love lady Gaga's videos in a sort of intellectual way, I like her exploration of kink and gender and sex theory etc... BUT I'm pretty solidly a straight girl at heart...

The music videos I go back to most often for 'porn' purposes are these:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3MXiTeH_Pg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-Isl_KX2WQ

and some others by Whitesnake. Probably much less intellectual than Lady Gaga, but... I have *never* found guys like that in mainstream hetero video porn :(

And even when you *can* search for characteristics on porn sites, it's only ever the women, I can't say 'hot shaved guys in long hair with tight pants and awesome cars...' lol.

But that's my whine about modern porn and is probably only tangential to the post :)

Maria

I agree, jemand. If you like a certain kind of men, you are pretty much out of luck when it comes to porn, straight or gay...

Francenia Andrews Zeve

I wanted to go look at this, but I'm in a Catholic hospital at the moment and they have some kind of parental control thing set up. I'm more than a little offended.

Francenia Andrews Zeve

By the hospital's policy. I love your blog.

Spencer

Has Typepad been acting up? I swear I posted a comment about my Gender Studies major neighbor across the hall who wrote a paper on Gaga, but it's nowhere to be found.

Jen

On man-porn: I used to think of myself as primarily turned on by women, until I started watching versions of popular music videos performed by amateur male dancers. Here's my favorite, and the hottest music video I can think of (although "Bad Romance" is now a close second):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcQT7lH6vyQ&feature=watch_response

When I watched that "split" video above, I realized I was looking at each video about 50/50. The women in music videos weren't hot because they were women--they were hot because of what they were DOING, and for whatever reason, we live in a culture in which men don't do those things. (If you know of a site where they do, do let me know!)

A man wearing hot pants and shaking his butt gets called gay, with an implied "and you don't want to be GAY, do you?" as though all sexiness is just a way to appease the male gaze--not for women, certainly not to turn yourself on. That's always someone else's job, I guess.

Now I identify as "sexy isn't a gender, it's a language" (and also as asexual: most days sex never crosses my mind, and the whole genitals thing really doesn't do it for me). I'm just posting this here for now, if that's okay. I don't like new places and I'm not a carnal person. If you think Carnal Nation needs these ideas, you're welcome to write a post about it.

Genos2007

You defintely are a funny writer.And you seem honest as well.It really is fun to read your articles.Unique in ''blogging land''.
http://www.gio-reviews.com

Martin

Invariably pop music is contrived by vacuous record company twats & talentless wannabes with video cash to convince you to "buy in" to the style, shock or attitude so people part with their hard earned cash. Although Gaga is perhaps no different in her ambition; can't help admiring her liberated sister act. As for being 48 years old, stuff that! It's never too late to start exploring who you really are & enjoy life beyond the programmed conformity that bullshit society forces on people from a very young age. Feel the fear and do it anyway, just don’t tell the buggers where you live because the uptight straight edged conformists are perhaps the weirdest of us all.

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