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Headbhang

I haven't been in an orgy. I wanna.

Pony

I just wanna have sex with my missus with other people. Whole exhibitionist/voyeur thing. I fear I'm not pretty enough to convince anyone pretty enough though... XD

Meagen

I can only imagine the logistics. There's already so much "ow, my joints" and "that's my arm" and "don't lean your elbow there" and "watch the hair" in my bedroom with just one other person there.

Theresa

Not too adventurous here, but I do know that issues I have in the rest of my life also apply to the bedroom & vice versa -- take the initiative! don't be too proud! for example.

So was the Reed seal fortuitous or did you go there? (I did, and I would have been the person who turned down the orgy to study for a chemistry exam...)

Greta Christina
So was the Reed seal fortuitous or did you go there?

No, I went there. That's funny! What years were you there? (I graduated in '83.)

But if you were a chem major, you would have had an excuse. Chem at Reed was apparently brutal. Students disappeared into the chem building and didn't re-emerge until graduation.

Julanar

Do orgy participants use condoms? Because you can call me paranoid if you want, but I'd be a little nervous about screwing with several guys at the same time. Especially if this wasn't their first orgy...

Blake Stacey
There's already so much "ow, my joints" and "that's my arm" and "don't lean your elbow there" and "watch the hair" in my bedroom with just one other person there.

Also: "he's not that into guys, so I should be twisting over in her direction, but she's being fairly occupied by her, so . . . Aw, fuck it. Sex is hard, let's go shopping."

Theresa

Greta, I was at Reed from 87-91 and was a bio major (so I took 3 yrs of chemistry, definitely brutal).

But my fellow geeks were not all as neglectful as I was of the sexual opportunities of college. They just multitasked better (a skill that would probably be valuable on another level in an orgy).

chanson

Re: I had serious Nancy Friday/ My Secret Garden damage, and had been persuaded that having fantasies about something doesn't mean you really want to do it.

I think that people who say this are talking about stuff like rape fantasies, or stuff like, y'know, that fantasy where aliens kidnap you for their zoo, and make you breed with the other random human specimens they've captured.

That's what I've learned from masturbating to weird fantasies that -- seriously -- I would never want to happen in real life. And how have I applied this knowledge? Just fantasize about whatever, and revel in imagination. :D

Mike Emerald

The pits with orgies is: its so different from the way you imagine it. A lot of the participants look decidedly unattractive. Tummies, excess body hair, untoned, scraggy, warts, you name it. And then as mentioned the positioning, arms, legs, hair, performance anxiety, and as a man, looking at the unsightly genitals of another man...I was once invited to a threesome with two girls. I thought about all of the above and swiftly declined. God, this is all way too much of an effort.

Londonrakehell.blogspot.com

I was disappointed with my first orgy. It was not the porn fantasy I envisioned...lol

I ended up going downstairs and watching television.

My threesomes were much better.

In any case, it was one more tick on the list.

Glenn Davey

I've had one threesome with 2 young, nimble, petite, very good-looking, sexually-charged bi-sexual girls - one blonde, one brunette italo-spaniard - who both eagerly invited me to join and not just watch, and it happened, on and off, over the course of 12 hours. No room of the house was left un-christened.

Best. Experience. Of my life. I learnt that orgies are very good. Sorry, I just love telling that story...

Glenn Davey

I suppose a threesome isn't quite an orgy, but I reckon it's closer to the traditional male fantasy: One guy with 2 girls who like boys and girls.

Glenn Davey

I forgot to mention the more instructive threesome I've had. The one that gave me my future wife. That's a cautionary tale for any blokes thinking of bringing in another bloke to satisfy their girlfriend/fiancee: she might become the other guy's girlfriend/fiancee.

But this fella had been acting like Greta's boyfriend from the story above, and my now-partner had been thinking about leaving him for some time. I was just the better option :)

Where he couldn't be sexually satisfied in monogamy, even though he said he loved her, I'm more than happy with this little nymph who has come into my life.

To think my darling had gone 4 years in a relationship being less-than-fully-appreciated is just awful to think about...

Rob Villard

I think that this article, even though i am a male, helped me out a lot. I was always curious if people got jealous at orgies. I had a monogamous relationship with a girl for about 1 year 7 months (we became engaged but i broke it off due to being in the military and needing to spend my focus there *note - i didnt do it for any other woman*. The idea of an orgy always play around in my head because 1. i cannot get enough sex 2. I am REALLY social and it seems like a really fun social event that you can meet people and learn new things. so yet again i think you for your article BUT can anyone give me any suggestions for organizations with maybe some sexual addictions that promote instead of demote my drive? thank you all and have an amazing day

Janee

I've always thought that I would probably enjoy an orgy, and this blog kind of solidified my resolve to try that at some point. I've always had a major problem with cheating, but I've also given both of my most recent exes permission to hook up with people as long as I'm part of the decision, as long as I know, and they're not the specific people I'd be jealous of.

Tbone

i want to have an orgy, gangbang either way so bad but idk if my gf would and won't cheat on her but i feel like if we were both in it it would be great

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