Professionalism = Selling Your Soul: A Feminist Rant on "The Devil Wears Prada"

"The Devil Wears Prada" has been on HBO recently: I watched it again a few days ago (I do think it's a funny, entertaining, well-crafted movie), and I was reminded of a feminist rant I had when the movie first came out.

Here's the deal. (Spoiler alert.) The purported arc of the movie is that our heroine, Andrea (Anne Hathaway), is a young would-be journalist in New York who can't find the kind of serious work she wants, and thus takes a job as assistant to the editor-in-chief at the biggest fashion magazine in the country. She justifies this as (a) a source of a much-needed paycheck, and (b) an entry-level position that could earn her some experience and gain her some connections in the profession.

But she sells out. She sells her soul. She is seduced by the glamour of the fashion industry into abandoning her high ideals; she prioritizes her work over her personal relationships; she stabs her colleague in the back; and she even winds up defending her abusive control-freak boss, Miranda (Meryl Streep) against her many critics. Eventually she realizes the error of her ways, walks out on her job, finds a better one, and grovels for forgiveness to everyone she injured along the way.

So here's my problem with the movie:

I couldn't see anything she did wrong.

I was watching very carefully the second time around, and almost every "soul-selling" step that the heroine took seemed perfectly reasonable and defensible.

And more to the point, just about everything she did would have been accepted without blinking in a male protagonist.

Let's take it a piece at a time. Here are the sins against her soul that Andrea supposedly committed.

1) She stayed in a job she didn't much care about, in an industry that's a snakepit of ego and ambition, working for a boss who treated her abysmally... just to get ahead in her career.

Well, yes. If you're serious about a career, "take this job and shove it" isn't always an option. Especially if you're just starting out. Sometimes you have to put up with very bad situations temporarily, to get what you need on your resume (not to mention to keep the paychecks coming). And sometimes you start out at a company you don't much like or care about, to gain experience you'll need to eventually work for someone you do care about. That's not selling your soul. That's having long-term goals, and the stick-to-it-iveness to go through the necessary, if sometimes unpleasant, preliminary steps to get there. That's being willing to prioritize your long-term goals over your immediate happiness and comfort. And theoretically, that's a quality our society values.

In men, anyway. This especially bugs me because her boyfriend, who's super-critical of her choices throughout the movie, is an equally ambitious, young, struggling would-be chef... and it's not like the world of high-end restaurants isn't a snakepit of ego and ambition, in which people stick with crappy jobs and asshole bosses to get the experience and contacts they need. But somehow, that's different.

And as it turns out, Andrea was right to do what she did. She did get useful experience and contacts, and at the end of the movie when she applies for the serious journalism job at the lefty newspaper, her recommendation from her old fashion-magazine boss is the tipping point that gets her the job. The job she cares about, and is good at, and that matters in the world.

But somehow, she was still selling her soul.

2) She prioritized her job over her friends and her lover -- including, sin of sins, skipping her boyfriend's birthday party because of a work emergency.

Let me ask you this. Ingrid currently has a job that she loves -- and it currently requires her to travel out of town two and a half days a week. This is a little hard on me, and puts some stress on our relationship. I also currently have a job I love (freelance writing) that currently requires me to spend weekends and evenings writing... time that would otherwise be part of the diminishing time we can spend together. This is a little hard on Ingrid, and puts some stress on our relationship.

Is either of us doing something terribly wrong?

I don't think so. I think we're both doing exactly the right thing -- supporting each other in our respective careers, making space for each other to do what we need to do, and making a point of savoring the time we do have together. That, in my mind, is what you do when you love someone. Obviously there's a limit -- if Ingrid's job required her to move to Antarctica, I'd put my foot down -- but especially when a situation is a temporary, experience-gaining or stopgap situation, cutting your partner some slack so they can get where they're going in a career they care about is just part of being in a relationship.

And, as Ingrid pointed out when I first shared this rant with her, "If you had a work emergency and had to skip my birthday party, I'd be disappointed, but I wouldn't think you'd done anything horribly wrong." Thinking that a birthday party is the most important thing in the world... that's not what sane adults do. (In fact, Andrea stayed at the emergency work event only as long as she needed to fulfill the requirements of her job, and when given the chance to stay longer to fulfill her own personal ambitions, she cut out and went home to be with her boyfriend.)

But women aren't supposed to think like this. Nobody blinks an eye when men have to work late or miss special personal events for job emergencies... but women are supposed to be loving and emotional and think family and love are always, always, always more important than work. Andrea was making a difficult but reasonable decision... but somehow, she was still selling her soul.

3) She got sucked into the world of fashion -- a world she didn't care beans about before she took the job.

Yes. Interestingly enough, when you take a new job in a field you're not familiar with, you often get excited about it and drawn into it. For fuck's sake, that's one of the best things about taking a job in a field you're not familiar with. You learn new things. You expand your horizons. I didn't know that much about women's health care before my job at the Feminist Women's Health Center; or about gay politics before my job at the gay newspaper; or hell, about the music industry before my crappy job at Ticketmaster. I grew to know and care about these things more because of these jobs. That doesn't make me a sell-out. That makes me an open-minded person who's eager to learn.

You can argue that fashion is a vapid, trivial thing to care about. But you can also argue, as many characters in the movie do, that fashion is an art form, one that touches everyone's life. Nobody thinks Hank Hill of "King of the Hill" is a sellout because he's grown to care passionately about propane and propane accessories... but when Andrea grows to see that fashion isn't as vapid and trivial as she'd originally thought, somehow it means she was selling her soul.

4) She stabbed her friend and colleague in the back.

Now, this is an interesting one. Andrea's most serious sin, in her mind and everyone else's, is that, when Miranda told her that she would be going on a coveted trip to Paris instead of her fellow assistant Emily (Emily Blunt), her initial reaction was to say, "I can't do that, the Paris trip means too much to Emily." But when Miranda made it clear that refusing the Paris trip would mean risking not only her job, but her chance at a recommendation and her career prospects (I believe her words were, "I'll assume you're not serious about your career, here or anywhere else"), Andrea caves and accepts.

In other words:

Her boss decides (somewhat unreasonably, but not entirely so) that Andrea is a better and more capable choice for the Paris trip than Emily. Her boss offers her the assignment. She accepts it.

And this is bad because...?

That's what the working world is like. If you're a boss, you don't offer assignments based on how much it means to your employees. You offer assignments based on who you think the best person for the assignment will be. And if you're an employee, you don't refuse assignments because taking them would hurt someone's feelings. It's not like the dating world -- it's not rude or bad to take the job your friend is hot for.

It's not like Andrea connived and schemed for the trip. It's not like she tried to undercut Emily or make her look bad so she could get the trip. In fact, she tried to turn the trip down, and she tried to give it to Emily.

But in the end, she acted like a professional. She treated her job like a job, not like a social relationship. She accepted an assignment that her boss offered her, an assignment her boss decided she was better suited to than her colleague -- and this, in her own eyes and in everybody else's, makes her a selfish, backstabbing power-slut. Nobody would blink twice if a man did exactly the same thing -- but for Andrea, somehow it means she was selling her soul.

5) She began to have understanding and sympathy for her abusive, control-freak boss.

My very, very favorite line in the movie -- and one that I think sums up in a nutshell the movie's real message -- is when Andrea says to a fellow writer (I'm paraphrasing here), "If a man acted the way Miranda does, nobody would say anything at all except what a great job he does."

Yup.

That pretty much says it all.

I think Andrea's character arc when it comes to Miranda is 100% reasonable. She starts out hating and fearing her; she grows to have some respect and compassion for her; and in the end, she decides that the compromises Miranda has made (personal and ethical) aren't compromises she would be willing to make.

But somehow, the fact that she ever had respect for Miranda's professionalism, and compassion for the pain that her sacrifices caused her... somehow, that means she was selling her soul.

*****

There's an essay I read in "Harry Potter and Philosophy," arguing that ambition (the defining quality of the Slytherin house) is, in fact, a virtue. And I would agree. Like most virtues, taken to extremes it can become a vice... but the willingness to focus on long-term professional goals, and to work hard and make sacrifices to reach them, is definitely a virtue. And it's a virtue that our society generally values quite highly.

But not in women. In women, ambition -- being willing to put up with shit to get where you want to go, sometimes prioritizing your career over your personal life, becoming engaged with a job even though it's ultimately not what you care about most, treating it like a job instead of a slumber party, having respect for successful high-achievers in your field, and generally taking your career seriously -- isn't considered a virtue at all.

In fact, it's more than just not a virtue. It means that you're selling your soul.

Comments

[nina hartley]

Thanks, Greta, for a great post. Due to travel stuff, I saw "Devil" four times in one week, on planes, and liked it each time, which surprised the pants off of me. Your points are right on.

She can always make up the missed birthday party. What's so special about a specific date, anyway, if you care about each other?

[stephen gottlieb]

I agree with you in principle. if you are going to be scrupulous in you life, you must live by your scruples. if you intend on being a shallow, predatory vicious bastard with no soul, you will do well in big business. I have not seen the movie and never intended to. either you intend to advance or not. if you intend to advance, you will basically have to kiss your obnoxious bosses ass once in a while. if you want to improve your career, your bosses approval and job skills are required. if your boyfriend/girlfriend have a problem with that, you need a new S/O. and I must say, meryl streep looked extremely hot in this film. I may have to watch it after all.

[Jon Berger]

In all fairness, it's the same basic story as "The Big Picture," except it's snarky about the fashion industry instead of the movie industry. The protagonist in "The Big Picture" was played by Kevin Bacon. So it's not just a girl thing.

The thing that annoyed me about "Devil" was that we were supposed to buy the Anne Hathaway character as dowdy, frumpy, and generally outside the pale of what fashionistas like the Stanley Tucci character could stomach -- but she just wasn't. Anne Hathaway is a drop-dead gorgeous Hollywood actress, and that's exactly what she looked like in the movie. They didn't even give us the standard movie cue of putting her in glasses to let us know we were supposed to think she was unattractive. Kudos to "Ugly Betty," which is basically the same setup as "Devil," for actually, unreservedly de-glamorizing America Ferrera.

[Red Jenny]

Interesting review. Can I post it at Leftist Movie Reviews here: http://leftistmovies.blogspot.com/

[Elle]

Great review, and great comments on women and ambition. Normally I avoid self-help books like I avoid pleated pants (ha! I made a fashion joke!), but I'm currently reading Debra Condren's amBITCHous , more for the validation as for the advice.

P.S. Commenter Jon Berger is absolutely right about the beauty that is Anne Hathaway. I wanted to scream every time they called her a fat girl for wearing a size 6.

[Kitty]

Very well-put! I hadn't been able to put it into words previously, but I think that your points are exactly what bothered me about this movie. After I finished watching it, I felt that I'd rather have watched a whole movie about fascinating and high-accomplishing Miranda rather than unprofessional Andrea, who shows up at her job interview not knowing anything about the magazine she wants to work for.

[dew]

What a step-by-step logical post! I've avoided seeing this movie because I've only heard negative opinions of it, and I have no interest in fashion. And because Hollywood movies always piss me off one way or another. But now I want to see it just out of curiosity about your points.

[Dulcinea]

Love this post. Hollywood movies always piss me off too, but I rarely get around to building a logical argument from my pissed-offness. There just seems too much to deal with - where do you start? Getting stuck in to one worthy film at a time in this calm, engaging way looks like the way to go.

[casapazzo]

Oh, thank you -- especially for bringing up the boyfriend chef's workplace atmosphere. I had the same thoughts after seeing this, though I hadn't put it into a "men v. women in the workplace" context -- I just thought it was lazy writing. Disappointing, given that the rest of the movie was funny and entertaining, but it's a big sour note that ruins it for me.

[crepe_suzettes]

I picked up your review rather belatedly via fyrdrakken on livejournal, and it flagged up points that I'd made in a review when it first came out, which I wondered if you would find interesting:

http://crepe-suzettes.livejournal.com/503.html

[Gareth]

The boyfriend is an intensely irritating passive-agressive crybaby -- let's get that out of the way right now.

But I'm not sure that the movie is really trying to push the idea that Andrea is 'selling her soul' to the extent you suggest.

I got the impression it was trying to say that she was losing perspective of the goals and intentions she had when she originally took the position, not because she was selling out, as such, but because she was in an environment in which fashion world (and Miranda) were accorded such extreme importance and urgency that it threatened to overwhelm her. In other words, she was beginning to treat what was originally intended as a stepping stone as an actual career in itself, not because she desired it, but because she was swept up in the momentum of it all. I feel this is subtly different to 'selling out' which implies a more deliberate or cynical move.

The book pushes the 'selling her soul' aspect more strongly, with the character supposedly neglecting her friends/family/boyfriend, and the judgemental whininess of the boyfriend in the film appears to be a remnant of that (probably retained for the romantic trouble/drama subplot) but I suspect the film-makers very consciously sought to soften this aspect, and I think they largely succeeded.

I think they also very deliberately removed the snobbishness Andrea displays throughout the book, as well as her whinging 'poor me!' attitude, but that's another story.

[Paul Zagoridis]

Ingrid is smart.

Every point you've made resonated with my view of this movie (actually and most movies where the protagonist "sells out" and later redeems herself.

Sure this post is two years old. But I found myself watching House of Saddam this week and feeling strangely similar. Saddam was an ambitious, ruthless and murderous dictator. But what else should we expect from that world view and cultural bias?

Fiction needs conflict for drama, and western audiences seem to prefer the triumph of ideals over ambition. Fiction must also make "sense". Real life on the other hand can be messy, illogical and rewarding ambitious risks (when they work out).

[Seth Manapio]

Hank Hill did not "grow to love" propane, and propane accessories. In flashback sequences, it becomes clear that Hank's lifetime love has been, and always will be, propane and propane accessories.

[Ren Richardson]

I really enjoyed the movie and I think your pragmatic take on some of its themes are more than warranted. But I have to wonder about your primary point: you claim that Anne Hathaway's career path was made to be the subject of a dilemma in a way that no one would give a second thought to in a male protaganist.

Really? You mean the theme of a young, idealistic male embarking on a new career who, when presented the opportunity for money and advancement, faces the hard choice of what he must sacrifice (sell-out?) for success is not a repeating theme in Hollywood? Or maybe you mean that movies always celebrate the fact that men *should* choose professional success over relationships, family, personal development, or integrity. Of course they do. That's what we expect in our male-dominated culture, right?

Except they don't. Ever seen "Wall Street"? Or dozens of other movies with similar storylines? The moral of their stories, with slight variation, boils down to the same thing "The Devil Wears Prada" was conveying, whether you agree with that message or not.

If Hathaway's character finds herself presented with tough choices about what path her life is going to take, or what priorities are going to take precedence (and that those choices are quite similar to what any man in her position would face), I would think feminists would appreciate that message: women have to make hard choices because they have more of them.

I also remember laughing when I heard the quote in the movie you refer to as your favorite: "If a man acted the way Miranda does, nobody would say anything at all except what a great job he does."

Easy to believe....but in reality, at least most of the time, completely false. You have Miranda, who is highly successful, portrayed as if something is being taken away from her achievements by the fact that she is criticized for her personality.

What world are you referring to exactly when you say her male counterpart wouldn't be criticized at all? I laughed when I heard that quote because it is ridiculous. Again, you may want to believe that a different standard exists but in reality it isn't that different at all. Sure, we expect different behaviors from men and women (surprise of surprises) but most highly successful men I know that make similar sacrifices Miranda made are criticized for their demeanor in much the same way, just substituting the gender-appropriate terms. There are far more similarities between the personality types than there are between the same sex. In fact, if Miranda were a man, other men would be some of his most vocal critics. If anything, women tend to give more of a pass to men like that because, let's face it, they stand to gain a lot more if there is the possibility of a relationship.

Besides, it's not like Miranda *couldn't* obtain her position. No one kept her from it. The fact that you and the movie were complaining about the point that other people shouldn't *say* anything about her status sounds suspiciously like it belongs in the "Shut Up, That's Why" category of arguments that you rightly dismiss when it comes to anti-atheist sentiment.

[Celine]

This exactly how I felt when I saw the movie with my mother when it came out. When Emily screams at Andrea for "stabbing her in the back" with the paris trip, my mother leaned over and whispered "what is this, a sorority?"

I resent this expectation that females are supposed to nurturing and put relationships and family above their jobs. I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years, but at 21 I know it would be suicide for me to just move across the country to live with him post grad. All the jobs in my field are happening in New York, and I made it very clear from the start that my career will always come before him.

I felt the same when I saw the latest Meryl Streep movie, Julie and Julia. Had the whole movie been just about Julia Child, I would have really enjoyed myself. Instead I have to watch Julie fake all her smiles so that she can go on pretending that she likes her life and that her boyfriend isn't a complete douchebag. When she finally finds something she loves, her boyfriend is callous, unsupportive, childish, and everyone calls Julie a bitch for not humoring him. The end. And we're supposed to swallow that whole!

[Elle Bee]

I'm years late in finally watching this film. Every point you've made was exactly where my inner rant was going as I watched this movie with the retro message.

The point of the movie when I realized how far backwards we've moved in regards to women's career development was when boyfriend was walking out on her in the middle of the NYC street, all for the sin of missing His Birthday.

Where have I seen that scene before? That whiny childishness, "but it was my big DAY and you MISSED it for your JOB!" It was in the movie "A Bunny's Tale," a film about Gloria Steinem's stint at Playboy, when she went undercover as a Bunny, and discovered the inequities women employees faced there. At one point, there was an almost-identical scene with her boyfriend, walking out on her because she dared to miss his big night because her job kept her overtime.

But the difference was, Gloria yelled back. She didn't look ashamed and guilty, she didn't question her morals for doing the job she was asked to do. The upshot of the movie was that "all women are bunnies - but it doesn't have to be that way."

Unfortunately this movie gets it backward. Andy doing her job in order to make it in the competitive world of journalism is seen as "whoring", while running back to boyfriend and simplicity is seen as "virtue." With this movie, Gloria Steinem's message is erased.

[Kyralou]

some folks have made some salient points about questioning the "selling out" script and its relevance to a gender-specific critique, but I think that some are missing the point: It's not that male characters aren't challenged about their ethics in business; it's that what *constitutes* poor ethics tends to a HUGE shift in values when the protagonist is female. No one would have batted an eyelash if a male protagonist had accepted a promotion over someone who had *made himself* his enemy and *set himself up* as the guy's chief competitor (not that it wasn't clear that the environment engendered it as well, but EMILY antagonized Andy from day one, without any provocation whatsoever. Sorry, but they were NOT friends, no matter how they'd come to resolve the tension.) Normally, an audience would have cheered in those circumstances and thought it not a little strange had the hero turned down a project knowing he'd be fired as a direct result. Andy, on the other hand is made to see the error of *her* ways, though, which makes NO sense whatsoever. She was not responsible for the decision and held no sway over it. In fact, Emily WOULDN'T have been allowed to assist Miranda with her injury. She likely would have been considered a hindrance and a liability and Andy would have gone anyway.

Listen, nobody sees Andy failing to appreciate her boyfriend for rubbing her feet after a long days' work, or even sees him showing up and being supportive of her , though it looks like he's barely employed at the time. Personally, I think those implied extra hours of his do more to explain why he feels slighted, more than what explicitly happens in the movie. I wonder what her boyfriend will be like when he's trying to make the tough climb to sous-chef (does anybody really believe he'll be starting sous-chef)? Nobody bothers to inquire in the movie, even though it's obvious to anyone who's worked in a tough industry that "what it takes" is just "what it takes" and you're either wealthy or very lucky not to HAVE to do MOST of the things Andy does and that her boyfriend, who is asking her to MOVE, for cripes sake, will have to do those things as well.
Most of the things that make Andy "wrong" just make her a "person with a job". I thought of Wall Street too, but Wall Street actually does the male characters that courtesy of being specific enough to show them making choices that are the direct result of poor character and involve exploitation and unprovoked divisiveness and vindictiveness. Andy does none of those things, but we swallow it whole, as one commenter said, that she's a bitch simply because she chooses, as EVERYONE KNOWS one must frequently do when one is just starting out has little credibility in an industry, to make sacrifices for a thankless job. Wall Street is yes, competitive as well, but selling money (which is really what the job entails in that context) tends to be an unscrupulous venture to begin with. Basically, Andy is the bad guy because she doesn't kill herself taking care of everyone else, but takes care herself, and let's be honest -- she just barely does that. It's a shame that the movie forces her to apologize for it.and about

And there is no way in the Devil's Home that Anne Hathaway wore a size 6 at the time. And even some of the post-makeover clothes in some of the production photos are too big on her.

[carolina]

I like this post, though it looks as if I'm quite late in reading it - I just came across it on stumble. But what it made me think of is my own academic career. There was a moment I realized that (aside from the intellectual challenge) my far greater challenge would be to assert myself - and that when confronted by an assertive male, I had been socialized to capitulate to his view. I realized with some shock that in order to succeed , I'd have to get over that. I don't know that I'm quite there yet but awareness is a good part of the journey. Thanks for spurring my thoughts by sharing your own.