I was eating sushi the other day, and it sparked a mini-revelation about trying new things -- and about re-trying old things I think I don't like. And it's occurring to me that this mini-revelation could apply to lots of things other than food. Like -- oh, say, just to pick one example completely at random -- sex.
I've been trying of late to expand my horizons about food. I'm a mildly picky eater, and I really don't want to be. There's a huge world of food out there that millions of people take tremendous pleasure in, and I don't want to be closed off to it. (You can start drawing parallels with sex anytime.) And if other people are enjoying some culinary delicacy, then... well, that's certainly no guarantee that I'm going to like it. But it's a pretty good guarantee that I'm not actually going to die from it.
So I'm trying to expand my horizons. Which means trying new things, obviously. But it also means re-trying things I've tried before, and decided I didn't like.
And I had a mini-revelation about a specific strategy for doing that... a strategy that I think can be applied to sex as well.
Thus begins my latest piece for the Blowfish Blog, On Trying New Things... And Re-Trying Old Ones. To find out my specific strategy for learning to like food I thought I didn't like -- and how that strategy can be applied to sex -- read the rest of the piece. (And if you feel inspired to comment here, please consider cross-posting your comment to the Blowfish Blog -- they like comments there, too.) Enjoy!