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Cross-dressing. All from childhood into adult hood I had never even thought about it except thinking it funny when Monty Python did it. In the last few years, it started entering my mind more and more what it would feel like to where stockings and a dress. When I finally tried it, I found it incredibly arousing. I think it's kind of lead me to another fetish, the desire to be a submissive to a female-dom, which I'd never had before.


I think I have acquired a taste for BDSM where I never had before. Looking for SF sex culture-led me to being around it, reading about bdsm, being on Fetlife etc. While I know that its not core to my sexuality like it is for some where its the same as being gay, I now have d/s fantsies whereas 10 years I ago I was like what? who is into that stuff-it's weird.


Lactation. I never even knew it was a fetish until after I had given birth. I've always had a breast fetish but the interest in lactation got me many years after I breastfed. I also found hentai lactation porn and found it very arousing. I've read lactation-based porn and I love it so much (when it's well written) that I am considering writing some of my own.


I don't know if I'm old enough to qualify for the "later in life" at 25, but I have definitely 'discovered' fetishes and turn-ons I never knew I had (or never had before). Mostly through the wonderful world of slash fiction - find a ship, notice slightly squicky warning, decide to read anyway, find former squick suddenly alluring.

Also: pseudo-somnophilia. I don't know where that came from, but I'm pretty sure my younger self would have found that not only not arousing, but plain disgusting. Now it's one of my favourite things :)


Similar thing for me as with Justin. Had some fun exploration with a girl I'm dating...


No fetishes to report, Greta, but "whacking off" anything sure sounds painful.

This was a most interesting post, however, and quite well written. I'll be back (sorry... Schwarzenegger is our Gov'na).


Interestingly, I find that I lose the appeal for certain fetishes I've had once I've gotten to try them in real life. Must not have been a true fetish but a curiosity for this to happen, I would think.


Wow! Ctrl+C Ctrl+V this and I now can explain my fantasy life to my S.O. Thank you Greta!


Well, I've been getting off on spanking (from a sub position) since I started masturbating (at about 4 or 5 years old). So there's a pretty early and firmly established fetish right there.

Possibly this is too early to qualify, but in my late teens I developed a major turn-on for cross-dressing men, which is when my family really started wondering about my sexuality (I had already been know to favor men they and others considered "feminine"--I just thought they were "hot"). My family constantly reminded me, hysterically and insistently, about how all men who wear women's clothes are either homosexual or repressed homosexuals. My sister's last boyfriend didn't help matters either.

Over the last couple of years (I am 30 now) I have begun to develop an interest in the dom position in spanking, which is something that has never appealed to me before. I find myself looking at certain prettyboys on TV and in movies--Bam Margera, or DiCaprio as King Louis in Man in the Iron Mask--and being overwhelmed by a desire to take them over my knee. Jackass 2 nearly drove me mad when I finally got to see it, what with Bam constantly baring his pretty little butt.

Come to think of it, my female-on-male dom fantasies have a bit of the "brat" element in them, dont' they? My male-on-female sub fantasies never really did. I hadn't thought about that before this post! There's another recent variation, I guess.


What an interesting entry. I am the same way, only that my learned fetish is Female Domination (with me being dominated by women). My wife and I have played at it and I love it. In fact, I love it so much that I get depressed when we don't do it.

The problem we have is that she doesn't want to be mean to me and I do. I want to be pushed and "forced" to do disgusting things I normally wouldn't. I think it's exciting as hell and I can totally understand why that guy in England left his wife to live as a woman's slave.


I seem to be coming to this a bit late, but I don't really have any "fetishes" in the strict sense (anal play probably comes closest). I have, however, found that the already substantial range of fantasies I find arousing that squick most people expanded rapidly during my teens, in tandem with extensive access to (mostly written) internet porn (with, oddly, some of the weirder ones mirroring themes I found "thrilling" as a prepubescent with no meaningful concept of non-reproductive sex). Another thing that was definitely acquired during and sense my teens is a tendency to fantasize from the perspective of a (usually submissive, but tomboyish) female, despite being otherwise comfortable with my real-life gender.


I like to walk around in my wet panties and sell them on ebay and

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