The California Supreme Court said yes.
Ingrid and I can get married now. Legally. (Or we can in 30 days, when the ruling takes effect.)
I kind of don't know what to say about this. I'm still processing it. And it still could be overturned: it looks like there's going to be a ballot initiative in November to amend the state Constitution to ban same-sex marriage, and it could pass. And of course, all of this is going to affect the Presidential election, and I have no idea how that's going to play out. So part of me is freaking the fuck out.
But the other part of me is so thrilled I can't speak. We've been waiting for this for so long. And -- how shall I put this? -- we've been not waiting for this for so long. When I first came out (over 20 years ago now), same-sex marriage wasn't even on the table. It never even occurred to me that it would be an option.
I don't yet know what to say. I'm sure I'll have more to say in the coming days, weeks, and months. But I know I want to say this now:
Things change. Don't ever let anyone tell you that things don't change.